Wreckage of a Narcissist

Survivors often find themselves in a situation where they were out for a nice Sunday drive on this smooth highway with the sun shining, the birds chirping, and everything seemed like it was going well. Things were on track and the future was looking bright.

Then, they felt a bump and they shakily lift their head up and realize that highway wasn’t smooth — in fact, they weren’t even on a highway at all!. They were dreaming! 75 mph dream. First they try to wrestle control of the car as they scramble to get both hands on the wheel.

Suddenly, out of the blue being dropped into this new frame of reference scared the hell of them and when they reached for the wheel the found themselves in a big fish tail barely able to hold the car on the little dirt road they found themselves on.

Its at this point that many survivors can’t hold the wheel anymore and in a tragic spectacle their life goes flipping end over end finally crashing down after 8 flips with the whole thing being a smoking burning wreck that they barely recognize as their life. The slow recovery back to being healthy begins for them the minute that car stops flipping.

This is very much what it feels like in at the point of the breakup after you’ve been devalued. Its that sudden. You’re living life and everything seems like it's going according to plan when suddenly you’re head bobs and you realize you’re asleep so you wake up and you find yourself in the most surreal circumstance imaginable.

The discard is literally like the moment of waking up and you’re desperately trying to get your careening life back under control but its fishtailing all over that road. If you’re lucky you can keep control of it and survive the relationship without much more than a close call occuring.

Most survivors however, end up in the ditch or rolling their car and watching their life and identity be shredded in front of them with zero control and zero say over what happens.

After the narcissist walks away that car is destroyed and that survivor has a long way to go to get even close to being back where they were before that relationship began. It's a long journey through therapy and learning before they are ever ready to drive a car again. Some never will again. They swear off driving forever.

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